Alice Shani Lankri | Love & Prosperity Coaching, Lisbon and online

The work

Who, what, how: mix freely

Different starting points, the same destination: a life that can hold love, power and depth, together with fear.

Who

Women Men Couples Parents Groups and circles Companies and lectures

What we meet

Love Intimacy and sexuality Money Business Power Family Our children Purpose Career and direction Focus Creativity Life transitions Psychedelic preparation and integration

All of this work is relational. We are wounded in relationship, and we heal in relationship: with a partner, with family, with money, with life itself. My craft is building the relationship in which change becomes possible. Mix any who with any what, one to one or in a circle. The container is built around you.

Why me

My life is devoted to healing. Of myself, my body, my relationships, my community. Embodiment, ceremony and community saved my sanity, my happiness and my creativity, and turned me into someone whose deepest joy is walking beside others as they cross that same bridge.

Before dedicating myself fully to this work, I spent a decade in tech startups as a product and customer experience leader. Many of my clients come from that world; I speak the language of high performing minds meeting profound states.

I am trained in couples therapy, and relationship is the ground of everything I do. I have led ceremonies and workshops at international festivals including ZNA Gathering and Tribal Gathering, hold emotional forums in the tradition of the Tamera community, and this year I begin AWE, a three year training in ecstatic mysticism.

My daily ground is body based practice: yoga, movement, meditation. Dancing is my art. Nature is my friend.

"Intensity is not the same as truth."

How

One craft, many doors

Whether it is one person or a whole circle, the craft is the same: creating a field safe enough for what is hidden to come into the light.

Somatic coaching Guided meditation Jungian depth work IFS parts work Family constellations Emotional forums Yoga and movement Dance Ceremonial music journeys

I design and produce my own ceremonial music journeys, mapping the space between mind and body. Guided meditation, movement and yoga are woven into every container I hold.

Sessions happen online, on the phone, in person, or walking side by side. Some conversations need a moving body and open sky.

I also write about relationships on Substack: Relationships Upgraded

The frame

Deep, and still focused

Open ended talking has its place. This is not that. Depth and structure are not opposites, and here they work together.

1

Clear goals

We name what we are working toward, and we come back to it. You always know why we are in the room.

2

Active sessions

I hold the process and keep it moving. We work with beliefs and patterns directly, not just talk around them.

3

Practice between sessions

You leave with something concrete to try in real life. That is where the change actually lives.

An honest check

Is this for you?

This is for you if

You already understand your patterns, and you are ready to actually change them.
You want depth and structure: clear goals, active sessions, practice between meetings.
You are willing to include the body, not just talk about it.
Something in you says enough, even if it is quiet.

This is probably not for you if

You are looking for someone to just listen, week after week. That is worthy work, but it is not this.
You want someone to decide for you.
You need acute psychiatric care right now; I will gladly help you find the right support.

Love: from anxious to secure

Love that feels calm isn't boring, it's just new. A racing heart isn't always chemistry; sometimes it's fear in a costume. We learn to tell the difference.

For yourself

The same relationship keeps arriving in different clothes. We work on choosing partners who can actually meet you, and on moving from anxious to secure without losing yourself on the way.

For couples

From roommates back to lovers. Breaking the same fight, and turning toward each other even in the middle of an argument. I am trained in couples therapy, and you can come together or one of you first. More on couples work

All relationship structures are welcome here, monogamous to polyamorous. You will not need to explain yourself first. More on intimacy and sexuality

We don't choose partners with our values. We choose them with our patterns.

Money: from surviving to building

Money is a relationship too. The same patterns that run your relationships run your bank account. We work on both the numbers and the story underneath them.

The practical side

A budget you actually keep. Knowing what you really spend each month. Money set aside. Solid foundations for your business. And a step further: building a diversified portfolio across markets, crypto and real estate.

The inner side

Growing from feeling like a girl or a boy around money into a woman or a man with an excellent relationship with money and investing. Decisions that come from knowing what you truly need. Generosity that stands on solid ground.

Building a kingdom starts with an account that respects itself.

Direction: from scattered to focused

Not lost, just between chapters. Between jobs, between callings, or between versions of yourself. Direction is not found by thinking harder; it is found by listening better, and then taking one real step.

Finding work

Career transitions, knowing your worth, and concrete first steps. I spent a decade in tech startups as a product and customer experience leader, so I know that world from the inside. I also work one to one with founders, twenty so far, on the system that holds too many projects at once. What works is never a rigid template: we map what already exists before we change anything, build one loop light enough to actually keep using, and adjust from there. More on founder coaching

Finding direction

What actually matters to you, decisions without knowing everything in advance, and a calling that can also pay the rent. Good at many things and unable to pick one? That is not a flaw, it is an unfocused compass. Focus is a skill, and we build it.

Working with AI

Most people use AI as a chat window and wonder why nothing changed. I set it up to run without you opening it, across both halves of your week: the launch and the tax file, the client call and the form nobody assigned to anyone. Built on your own accounts, with checks before you trust it, and an honest list of what not to automate. More on AI systems

I am built from many things myself: tech, music, ceremony, writing. I know the ache of too many doors, and the relief of walking through one.

One real step beats ten perfect plans.

Voices

What people say

"[כאן תיכנס המלצה אמיתית מספר 1, מחכה לטקסט ממך]"

Name, context

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Name, context

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Name, context

How it works

Small first step, on purpose

1

Reach out

The form below, or WhatsApp.

2

We schedule

I answer personally within 24 hours.

3

Intro call

30 minutes, free. We check the fit, no pressure.

4

We probably dance

At some point. It's inevitable.

Questions

Frequently asked

Where do you work, and in which languages?

In person in the Lisbon and Sintra area, and online worldwide. Sessions are in English or Hebrew, whichever feels most like home.

Who do you work with?

Individuals and couples, on love, money, intimacy and direction. I have been guiding people for about 8 years and have worked with more than 100 people and couples.

Is this therapy?

I am trained in couples therapy and work with the same core material: communication, conflict, intimacy, trust. The frame is coaching: goal oriented, active, with practice between sessions. It is not psychotherapy and does not replace it.

Do we have to come as a couple?

No. You can come together, or one of you can start first. A relationship changes when one person in it starts moving differently.

How do we start?

With a free 30 minute intro call. I answer personally within 24 hours. We check the fit, no pressure. Reach out through the contact form or WhatsApp.

Let's begin

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Letters

Letters on love, money and being human

Once in a while, never spam.